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AI Summary
- Case Kenny reframes relationships as 'settling up' rather than 'settling down'—moving away from sacrifice narratives toward relationships that amplify independence
- Research on the 'liking gap' shows people underestimate how much others like them; dating to be seen rather than liked changes relationship outcomes
- Non-conforming traits and playfulness serve as relationship foundations; fulfillment comes from partners who energize rather than diminish you